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A love note for logical thinkers. I didn’t start participating in my own therapy until I’d been a practicing therapist for 6 months. For most of my 20’s and 30’s my storefront sandwich board would’ve read, “It’s okay. I’m fine. I’m smart enough to figure this out. I’m just one more how-to guide away from […]

We can’t outsmart our feelings.

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Lessons from Sessions What would it feel like to know what you know or feel what you feel, fully? To inhabit yourself without justification, persuasion, or defensiveness? Dropping the need for your rightness to be proven through their wrongness, knowing that truth, like gravity, maybe have discovered but cannot be denied. It existed before we […]

What’s your relationship status? Potential vs Reality Continued

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Lessons from Sessions In the last couple weeks, there have many sessions focused on a central theme – am I in a relationship with someone’s potential, or their behavior? This is not and easy question to answer, at all. I believe, and know through experience that people CAN change. Recovery, healing, growth – are all […]

Potential, Promises & Change

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A love note for logical thinkers. I didn’t start participating in my own therapy until I’d been a practicing therapist for 6 months. For most of my 20’s and 30’s my storefront sandwich board would’ve read, “It’s okay. I’m fine. I’m smart enough to figure this out. I’m just one more how-to guide away from […]

We can’t outsmart our feelings.

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Our fear sounds exactly the same. I’ve been working as a therapist since 2015, and one of the most unexpected and wonderful gifts is that I get to listen to people’s most intimate, personal, shameful moments. After thousands of practice hours I started to hear a rhythm in people’s personal stories that felt so familiar. […]

Falling, Farting & Misspelled Words.

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Lessons from Sessions In the last couple weeks, there have many sessions focused on a central theme – am I in a relationship with someone’s potential, or their behavior? This is not and easy question to answer, at all. I believe, and know through experience that people CAN change. Recovery, healing, growth – are all […]

Potential, Promises & Change

REad More

Our fear sounds exactly the same. I’ve been working as a therapist since 2015, and one of the most unexpected and wonderful gifts is that I get to listen to people’s most intimate, personal, shameful moments. After thousands of practice hours I started to hear a rhythm in people’s personal stories that felt so familiar. […]

Falling, Farting & Misspelled Words.

REad More

Lessons from Sessions What would it feel like to know what you know or feel what you feel, fully? To inhabit yourself without justification, persuasion, or defensiveness? Dropping the need for your rightness to be proven through their wrongness, knowing that truth, like gravity, maybe have discovered but cannot be denied. It existed before we […]

What’s your relationship status? Potential vs Reality Continued

REad More

Lessons from Sessions In the last couple weeks, there have many sessions focused on a central theme – am I in a relationship with someone’s potential, or their behavior? This is not and easy question to answer, at all. I believe, and know through experience that people CAN change. Recovery, healing, growth – are all […]

Potential, Promises & Change

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